I had never really considered pursuing a career in home care or given it much thought, even after my mother received her diagnosis. However, I now understand how crucial quality home care is for families managing the needs of elderly parents.
by Kathryn Parsons| Contributor
Many people mistakenly believe that home care signifies the loss of independence. I used to share this perspective, but I’ve come to realize that it is quite the opposite. Implementing the right care strategy can enhance both the quality of life and the autonomy of those living at home.
I came to this realization through my own challenging experiences.
When my mother Jane was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s in 2015, it hit us hard, yet it provided us with the clarity we needed. My mother has an incredible spirit and has become a beacon of hope in our community. She embraces every day and lives life on her own terms, following a philosophy inspired by a book titled “Living Your Life, Not Your Diagnosis.”
Our family is determined to support her through this journey. However, being a caregiver for someone with Alzheimer’s or dementia poses significant challenges. As a single mother with two teenage daughters and a full-time job, I realized that I would eventually need external help as my mother’s condition progressed. It was unexpected how intertwined my family and professional life would become.
When I found out that Honor, a home care company based in San Francisco, was launching in the Dallas area, I eagerly pursued the chance to join their staff. The mission of Honor—to empower our elderly loved ones to stay in their homes for as long as they choose—is invaluable to many families. Honor not only enhances the lives of caregivers but also revolutionizes the way care is provided. The innovative approach and technology are professionally stimulating, but it’s the heartfelt stories of the lives we impact that truly move me.
In Texas, there is a strong emphasis on community, with many families, including mine, banding together to offer support. However, it’s unfortunate that many caregivers hesitate to seek help. Often, it’s the caregiver who fails to recognize when they have reached their limit, risking their health in the process. We incorrectly believe that needing a break equates to failure.
My stepfather, Jerry, embodies this mindset as well. His resilience shines through as he told me, “Kathryn, I was raised by my grandparents, who instilled in me the value of sticking together during tough times. This is just a difficult time.”
“I understand,” I replied. “But Jerry, even after being together for 39 years and being responsible for your mom’s wellbeing, you don’t have to shoulder all the care alone.”
One story from a client during my first week at Honor left a lasting impression. She shared, “I initially believed that hiring a CarePro from Honor meant I was failing my husband. However, I soon discovered that having professional support actually benefits both of us. Though I may not have much time left with him, this arrangement allows me to be his partner again.”
To explore how the Honor difference can positively impact your family through home care, visit joinhonor.com or call us at (877) 777-5116.
