Investing time with your girlfriends brings out the best in YOU!
By Cecily Knobler | Contributor
Discussions about “feelings” are never off-limits with our girlfriends. They understand that after a tough week, we often need a break from reality—no stress, no obligations. When it comes to chatting about everything from our partners to our personal grooming, or even the highs and lows of reality TV, these friends help restore our sense of self. And while they may refer to us as a bit of a “hot mess,” their words are always rooted in affection, as they’ve experienced it too.
The highlight of a girls’ night out is the opportunity to reconnect with our emotional anchors. We can embrace our silly sides, express annoyance, or simply unwind and shed our worries. Whether we’re dressed in stilettos or casual sneakers, our girlfriends see past appearances, allowing us to be our authentic selves.
How often do therapists genuinely make us laugh? When else can we sip wine while dissecting our deepest thoughts? With our closest friends, there are no restrictions on topics of conversation. And let’s be honest—if someone is utterly obsessed with The Bachelor, tough love may be in order, but most likely, your friends are equally hooked.
So, let your hair down! Reach out to those who uplift you and plan a reunion! Reserve that table, indulge in a martini, savor that extra slice of cake, arrange for a spa day, or catch that overly romantic movie. Go shopping to upgrade those Mom Jeans. At the end of the day, remember: you’re not just someone’s wife, mother, daughter, boss, or employee. You’re someone’s best friend—someone who understands you completely and likely needs a joyous night out just as much as you do!
Local Moms Reflect on the Importance of Girlfriends
L to R: Kim Costigan, Leslie Leach and Jane Ito
“The bond with my girlfriends is the very glue that keeps me whole. They accompany me through every milestone—celebrating victories, sharing tears over losses, exchanging parenting tips, and providing support through all of life’s ups and downs. Life would undoubtedly be less enjoyable and more challenging without them.” – Jane Ito
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L to R: Cindy Garrison, Kelly Flynn, Debbie Gillespie, Teresa Niermeyer and Julie Tadlock
“Girlfriends are like wildcards—always present when you need them! The Mahj Mavens have been playing together for five years, supporting one another through life’s journey.” – Teresa Niermeyer
L to R: Leslie Gilvar, Susie Learmont, Amy Depner, Sue Benton and Traci Koen
“These friends entered my life when my oldest started kindergarten, and now, after sending them off to college, they have been my support network for over 13 years. Together, we’ve experienced tears of joy and sorrow, laughter, moral support, celebrations, and reflection. They are my lifeline to maintaining my sanity!” – Susie Learmont
Top Row: Carol Margolis, Lisa Crawford, Rachel Pearlman and Stefanie Toppel
“Girlfriends are essential to me because they truly understand me and help me navigate through challenges while also celebrating my wins!” – Carol Margolis
Jo-el Howell, Emily Payne
Middle Row: Tracey Hill, Kelly Dossman, Beth Thompson
Bottom Row: Chris Russo Not pictured: Deborah Stowe
“Introducing the Bloody Mary Friday Crew! These moms gather every Friday for lunch, always on the hunt for the finest Bloody Mary. Our connection is unique; we celebrate one another and our individuality. Taking time for ourselves and uniting with positive, strong friends enriches all of our relationships. We engage in conversation, laughter, tears, and occasionally seek advice. It’s the perfect therapy for the soul!” – Beth Thompson
Third Row: Linda McCullough,
Janey Fullington, Andrea Wood,
Second Row: Susan Cure, Laurie Goyan, Wendi Hart
First Row: Jen Boleman, Ann Myer, Lori Collyar
“True friends guide you through life’s challenges, margaritas, and festivities.”
– Ann Myer
