A Mother’s Advocacy Raises Awareness for Children with Special Needs
by Karyn Brodsky
While raising a child can be a community effort, nurturing a child with special needs demands an even larger support system. This sentiment resonates with Kelly Waterman from Dallas, who has formed her own expansive network when one was sorely needed.
Two decades ago, after the birth of their daughter Sara, who has Down syndrome, Kelly and her husband Robert made a pledge to provide her with as typical a life as possible. “Together, we wanted Sara to be embraced and treated similarly to other children,” Kelly recounts. Driven by her powerful maternal instincts, she became an active advocate for her daughter. Whether it was supporting local organizations or serving on their boards, Kelly committed herself completely to the cause.
Affectionately known as “Happy” for her cheerful nature, Sara attended elementary and middle school in Plano. While some parents might hesitate, Kelly took it upon herself to lead the PTA, quickly becoming an inspiration to other families with special needs children. “I aimed to highlight the abilities of special needs kids rather than their challenges,” she states. To further this goal, she co-founded Special and Gifted Education (S.A.G.E.), which provided resources and information about classes tailored for children who learn differently. The initiative soon caught on, with nearby school districts adopting the model.
When Kelly sought a camp for Happy but found none available, she decided to create one herself. In 2009, she launched the S.A.G.E. Summer Expo, which began with a small number of camps and a few hundred families. Today, the event has expanded to feature over 75 camps and attracts around 1,000 attendees annually.
Happy thrived during her elementary years and later became a cheerleader at Renner Middle School, an experience that greatly enhanced her self-esteem. As high school approached, Kelly was determined to find a suitable transition program. After thorough research, she was particularly impressed with the program offered at Highland Park High School. The family relocated, and now Happy is enjoying her second year in the transition program, which allows special needs students to remain in school until they are 22.
When Kelly learned that the high school did not have a cheerleading program for students with special needs, she presented her proposal to the school’s administration. Before she could finish, her initiative was approved. This program not only enhances the cheerleaders’ self-esteem but also fosters a sense of belonging within the school community. “It’s fantastic,” Happy enthuses. “I love cheering at the games.” Kelly delights in the success of the “Sparkling Scots,” a partnership between varsity cheerleaders and special needs cheerleaders, aimed at teaching routines. “I’m passionate about advocating not only for my daughter but for all children,” she adds.
Kelly’s enthusiasm for advocacy is contagious, inspiring her whole family to get involved. Her son Nick, an 18-year-old who plays football for the Air Force Academy, exemplifies this by volunteering as a Best Buddy and assisting at the Special Olympics.
In addition to her family commitments, Kelly serves on the Special Education Parent Advisory Committee to provide recommendations for school improvements. She also acts as the liaison for the school’s transition program, exploring various internships and training opportunities. Furthermore, Kelly is on the board of the Park Cities Learning Difference Association, where she raises funds to enhance teacher training in innovative programs for special needs students.
Karen Pizette, a Plano mother of a special needs child, nominated Kelly for the VIP award, stating, “Kelly has been a beacon of hope and guidance for countless families as we navigate the school system and activities for our exceptional kiddos.” She lauds Kelly’s relentless effort in establishing inclusive programs, labeling her as “amazing.”
A true inspiration to parents everywhere and a remarkable role model for those with special needs children, Kelly’s positive energy and dedication have significantly impacted many lives. For her boundless commitment, substantial involvement, and passionate advocacy, Rodrigosaffiliates Magazine is proud to present this month’s VIP award to Kelly Waterman.
Our VIP (Very Inspiring Parent) Award recognizes the everyday heroes among us. These individuals demonstrate tenacity, integrity, and courage, inspiring others to follow their example as they prioritize family and community despite life’s challenges. Rodrigosaffiliates will present each recipient with an elegant crystal award and donate to the charity of their choice. Each issue features a new VIP award recipient showcased on Rodrigosaffiliates.com.
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