Seventeen-year-old Lindsay Steudtner exemplifies loyalty and the essence of true friendship.
by Karyn Brodsky | Staff Writer
When discussing individuals with disabilities, the focus often shifts to their limitations. However, a college-bound student from Plano shines a light on the abilities of her “differently-abled” friend, maintaining a faithful friendship for a decade.
Lindsay Steudtner, a graduate of Plano West High School who will soon begin her journey at the University of Arkansas, first met Sydney Pizette in third grade. Even when they were separated into different classes in fourth grade, their bond grew stronger. “Every morning, Sydney would wave and greet me before class,” recalls Steudtner. As time went on, their friendship deepened, culminating in their mothers meeting at a fifth-grade end-of-year gathering. Before long, they began making after-school plans. “At that young age, I didn’t fully grasp Sydney’s disability,” Steudtner explains, “but I wasn’t one to judge, which I believe encouraged her to keep talking to me and spending time with me.”
During middle school, Steudtner gained a better understanding of Sydney’s background. This phase was also pivotal in her own growth. “I became more aware of Sydney’s disability and developed my patience,” she notes. Steudtner recognized that children with special needs might behave differently because they sometimes struggle to comprehend certain concepts. “I knew I had to be patient to help her understand,” she adds.
Their bond flourished throughout high school, with Steudtner attending Sydney’s dance performances, joining family events, and spending time together at malls, movies, and restaurants. She even surprised Sydney by decorating her locker for her birthday. Lindsay volunteered as a Peer Assistant and specifically chose to be placed in Sydney’s class. Outside of the school environment, she became involved with the local Best Buddies chapter, which pairs general education students with those in special education. The program mandates regular check-ins and organized outings, and Steudtner consistently exceeds those expectations. Samantha Moran, the Texas Program Manager for Best Buddies, notes that this is where “true friendship flourishes.”
Lindsay has forged a unique bond with Sydney. “I know exactly what Sydney enjoys at restaurants, her favorite songs, and that she tells everyone about me,” Steudtner exclaims with pride. “Whenever we are together, others recognize me, even if I don’t know them.” Sydney’s affection for Lindsay is reciprocated: “I love Lindsay. I’m going to miss her a lot. She brings me to Fat Straws and the movies. She’s nice, pretty, and my best buddy. She’s my friend who makes me happy.”
According to Sydney’s mother, Karen Pizette, her daughter considers Lindsay her best friend, and the entire family holds Lindsay in high regard. “She’s been an outstanding friend to Sydney, and we feel very fortunate,” says Pizette, reminiscing about family moments that include Lindsay, such as taking a picture together every 4th of July. She adds, “Building close friendships is challenging for those with disabilities. It takes extraordinary individuals like Lindsay, who connects from the heart. She truly has a gift.”
As Lindsay prepares to transition to college life filled with studies and new social experiences, she remains dedicated to including Sydney in that journey. Plans are already in place for the Pizette family to visit so Sydney can see Lindsay’s dorm and immerse herself in college life, including attending a football game. Sydney’s mom acknowledges the bittersweet nature of Steudtner’s departure. “We are thrilled for her, but we will miss her greatly. We’ll always stay connected.”
While she will be majoring in Interior Design, Lindsay intends to stay involved with Best Buddies. “Sydney has become an integral part of my life, along with other special education students,” she remarks. “They always bring smiles and brighten my day. I hope to continue working with them throughout my college experience.”
For her unwavering dedication to assisting those with disabilities through authentic friendship and loyalty, Rodrigosaffiliates proudly recognizes Lindsay Steudtner with the Good Kids Award and a $250 scholarship.
Note: Best Buddies is a global organization operating in all 50 states and over 50 countries. Established in 1989 by Anthony Kennedy Shriver while studying at Georgetown University, it was born from his desire for individuals with disabilities to find “true, authentic friends.” His mother, Eunice Kennedy Shriver, founded the Special Olympics. By pairing general education students with those in special education, Best Buddies fosters an environment where meaningful friendships can flourish. For further details, visit bestbuddiestexas.org.
The GOOD KID Award is granted to a student aged 12 to 21 who demonstrates exceptional character, courage, and core values while inspiring others without seeking attention for their actions. In recognition of their dedication to helping a person, organization, or community, the Good Kid Award recipient receives a Certificate of Achievement and a $250 scholarship. To nominate a deserving student for this esteemed award, please visit www.Rodrigosaffiliates.com or contact Tricia White, Managing Editor, at Trica@Rodrigosaffiliates.com.
